My mother died peacefully early this morning. Her last words to my sister Elizabeth last night were “I have had enough”. Most of us have had opportunities in the last couple of days to say goodbye.
I have spent the day with Elizabeth at Woodpeckers and at Diamond Undertakers in Lymington; and making a number of necessary telephone calls.
Jacqueline is now on her way to our house where we will all enjoy Jackie’s chicken jalfrezi and continue discussing decisions.
I am deeply sorry for your loss, my friend. The parting words of your Mother say it all, however. May she rest in peace.
Thank you so much, Uma. Given that it is just a month since she last visited us I am pleased that the last stage was so short.
Indeed. That is a blessing.
I’m so sorry, Derrick. It was time, I suppose. But I have really enjoyed all the photos you posted, she always looked so happy. She had such a warm smile. May you always remember her. Much love.
Thank you so much, Marina. X
Thank you for introducing us to your lovely mother. My love to you and all those who knew and loved her.
Thank you very much, Yvonne
Bon Voyage, Derrick’s Mum, and a hug for her son, from Canada.
Thank you very much, Widders XX
Very sad to read this. Accept my heartfelt condolences, Derrick.
Thank you very much, Rupali X
My sincere condolences!
Thank you very much, Alexander
my heart is with you and yours. Your Mother’s words were similar to my Mom’s when she passed. I so totally get it. Oyashikiri – Peace!
Thank you so much, Q XX
My heart goes out to you and the family Derrick. Such a sad and difficult time. May you find peace with loved ones and the memories to treasure always. Sending a hug and raising a glass along with you to a life well lived, and an ending on her own terms. xoxo
Thank you very much, Val XX
Please accept our condolences. I am so glad she went peacefully.
Thank you very much, Lakshmi X
I am sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you very much, Mrs W
Your welcome.
After a long life well lived it’s still incredibly sad when the inevitable happens. Sending you thoughts and best wishes, Derrick.
My deepest sympathies, Derrick. I am so sorry for your loss. I am happy to hear that your Mum was obviously ready to go. From what I have seen of your posts, she lived a good life and passed with peace and dignity. Love to you and Jackie and all of your family 💞.
Thank you so much, AnneMarie XX
Oh no, I’m really sorry to read this friends. Arms around you, take good card xK
Thank you so much, Kelly X
I’m so very sorry to hear this. Your mother always put a smile on my face. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Thank you very much, Leslie XX
Sending condolences to you and your family. Your mum had a long life and great care too. I’m sure you’ll miss going to see her at Woodpecker’s. So glad you were all able to spend some time with her. Hugs to you, Derrick.
Thank you so much, Sylvia X
I had a hunch based on yesterday’s blog that your mum may have been having that rally that often happens before leaving this earth…. sort of our loved ones’ gift to us that we get to see them in better spirits a day or two before their transition. So glad your sis was there with her and her passing seemed to be a peaceful one. She let you know she was ready. Still, there is a hole in your heart – I know that feeling. It is one that only time can heal. May the love of family and friends and the joy of happy memories bring you peace and comfort, (((Derrick))) – I send my love and virtual hugs. ❤
Thank you very much, Jan. You are right. That was exactly my response to the rallying, although I didn’t disillusion anyone. X
Wise to keep it to yourself. You’re right – no one needed to be disillusioned! Bless you, my friend. I hope your memories are sweet ones and bring a smile whenever your mum comes to mind. ❤
Thank you once more, Jan X
My deepest sympathy to you and your family, Derrick. Sending warm thoughts from Australia.
Thank you very much, Jane X
Please accept my deepest condolences, Derrick.
Thank you so much, Dolly X
You are very welcome, Derrick.
I like those words, but hard for those left behind. My thoughts are with your family
Thank you very much, Sylvie. I think that is why she had been resisting liquids
Oh! How sad
Thanks again
I am deeply sorry for your loss Derrick. My thoughts are with you and all your family.
Thank you very much, Takami
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mother 🤍.
Thank you very much, Mrs Gumboots
Sorry Derrick, I’m just catching up. Sorry to hear about your mother. I always enjoyed her appearances in your blog.
Thank you so much, Quercus. I know you have had a recent similar experience.
my deepest condolences to you and your family, Derrick. her last words says it all. i am glad you spent a lovely time with her recently. hugs to you.
Thank you so much, Lola X
So sorry for your loss, Derrick. Condolences to you and your family.
Thank you very much, Joycee
My mother died peacefully a few years ago and it seemed quite unreal and my emotions weren’t real until some time after. My thoughts are with you Derrick. May they be full of warm memories and joyful times.
Thank you so much, John
My condolences Derrick, I feel that I almost knew your mother through your blog posts.
So sad to read this and I am extremely sorry for your loss Derrick. Perhaps you will find comfort in the fact that you were able to see her several times despite covid. My deepest condolences to you and your family and I hope you are able to overcome your grief
Thank you so much, Geetha X
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Derrick. I did not know (in response to y our comment on my own post yesterday…). My truest sympathy….I thought she ight be soon leaving, but so sorry I missed your post about her death. Across the sea, a warm hug.
Thank you very much, Cynthia. No problem. I thought you must have missed it. XX You probably know I never just “like” without reading. 🙂
All good, and glad of the reading before “liking”, indeed.
I’m very sorry Derrick! My sincere condolences to you and entire family! I guess the most important is that she went peacefully!
Thank you very much, Ribana X
I’m glad that your mother died peacefully, Derrick, and that she and you had the opportunity to see each other and say goodbye.
Thank you very much, Helen
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So sorry to read of your mother’s passing Derrick. Our thoughts are with you all.
Thank you very much, Lindsey
I’m sad to see that your mum is gone. What a great smile she had. I hope writing and sharing her life gives you much comfort.
Thank you very much, Rose. Yes – it is helping.
You’re welcome. You make WordPress really great
Thanks again
I am so sorry, Derrick. My condolences to you and your family on losing such an important member of your family. I am glad she died peacefully.