Some of my more recent followers were rather shocked by yesterday’s post. Those who have read my offerings over a longer period will possibly have been prepared by ‘My Branch Of The Family Tree’. It may now be worth explaining that the production of ‘Becky’s Book of Seasons’ was one way of dealing with my grief. The whole piece is a metaphor for life’s ups and downs, and for the value of hope. This morning’s amble round the garden revealed a number of newcomers, such as;
cranesbill geraniums,
the first of the rhododendrons,
with its entourage of white daffodils,
and a new flowering cherry.
Some plants are now even more profuse. These include:
flourishing forget-me-nots,
undulating swathes of white onions that, until disillusioned by Jackie I thought were albino
Spanish bluebells springing from the soil.
Tough little violas, somewhat chewed, have nevertheless survived the winter,
and the transported azalea is now in full bloom.
This morning Jackie drove me to Hythe hospital for a physiotherapy appointment on my hand. A very careful, affable, and efficient young physiotherapist rejoicing in the name of Sapphire had the task of removing my plaster; examining the stitches; changing my dressing; writing down a couple of exercises for me; and altering the venue for my next appointment to Lymington which is much nearer. The stitches are not due to be removed for another week. Sapphire was pleasantly surprised by what she found, saying that I healed well, which was some consolation. One of the prescribed exercises involves making a fist with the injured hand. After three hours I could do so quite effectively. Bearing in mind that the top joint of the third finger has been incapable of bending ever since I broke it playing rugby about thirty five years ago, I think the next picture demonstrates this. It is to be hoped that the delicate shade of pink chosen for my nail varnish is appreciated.
Out of consideration for my more squeamish readers, almost foregoing the wordplay of the thumbnail option, I have published a medium image of the stitches. Those who wish to inspect the decorative needlework, may wish to click on the image to enlarge it.
As we drove across the heathland on Beaulieu Road I felt like an Israelite following Moses across the Red Sea. On either side of the forest road waves of gorse billowed across the landscape sending golden spray crashing onto the division between them.
Stopping in Lymington on the way back, we sampled the set lunch menu at Lal Quilla. This was excellent. For £6.95 each we chose onion bhajis from a range of starters; prawn pasanda for Jackie, and prawn jalfrezi for me, each with pilau rice, from a choice of four main courses; and ice cream. The portions were the same quantity and as well cooked as we are accustomed to in the evenings. Jackie drank diet coke. My beverages were an interesting arrangement. The barrel ran out of Kingfisher whilst the waiter tried to pour me some. He held up a pint glass which was mostly filled with head, and offered me bottled Bangla or Cobra instead. I chose Bangla. Later, he brought me the Kingfisher, now settled to a good half pint. ‘Complimentary’, he said with a smile. This was more than I would have wished to drink, but it would have been churlish to refuse, so I didn’t.
I am not sure that I didn’t drop off to sleep this afternoon before Danni and Andy popped in for a visit, which was very welcome and enjoyable. Such are the geography and timetables of modern life that these casual social activities are generally a thing of the past, which is a shame.
This evening Jackie’s triple decker club sandwiches with sparkling water was more than ample sustenance.
Ahem… that was the only reason you took the Kingfisher? 🙄
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I agree, it would’ve been churlish to refuse. The whole episode seems delightful, apart from the sparkling water at the end. I would’ve got a bit churlish about that!
Thank you Bruce
You have better looking nails than I have. Thanks for the family tree but I will never be able to hold all those names in my head. I’m happy to be introduced to them as I follow you in your ramblings. Guess I’m trying to do what you’re doing too, except you have pretty flowers. I wish you only good things from here.
Thank you Mary. It’s amazing how well your nails look after your hand has been wrapped up for a week
The link to Becky’s Book doesn’t work for me Derrick. As one of your newer followers I appreciate the opportunity to be updated though. 🙂 I was happy with just the medium image of the hand. Ouch!
Thanks Pauline. Something has gone wrong with the Becky’s Book link. I’ll have another go at it.
I think it should work now. X
Yes it does – I left a comment there <3
Thanks again X
As a new follower, I was just going with the flow, figuring we all have a past. And frankly, I’ve found people can surprise me even after I’ve known them 20 years. We all do a certain amount of changing and flowing. But I loved reading about your family tree–and the link to Beccy’s book must have been fixed by the time I tried! Thanks for the back lighting and keep up the good healing!
Thank you arlingwoman
As a newcomer, the backstory definitely helps. The link to Becky’s book is just really, really beautiful. I imagine she will cherish that forever. By the way, that is some mean looking stitching – hope the hand heals well!
Thank you Matt. I once phoned Becky to ask her about the possibility of rebinding it. ‘I’m looking at it now’, she said. Unlike my hand, a bookbinder said the book was best kept as it was, needing no more stitching.
Really glad you’ve include links to the past posts here. I’ve been loosing myself in these posts. Fascinating stuff here…
Thank you Ray
What a wonderful set of beautiful flower photos. My favorite flowers are Rhododendron photos; they remember me from our small garden in our previous home. Thank You for this lovely post.
Thank you Sartenada
Aw, that stitch! I’m glad to read it healed well.
Thank you