Every Friday evening throughout July and August Sigoules square is covered in long tables and chairs;
various food suppliers put up their stalls;
Les Caves and others produce the wine; and people swarm in from miles around. There is a pop group singing a fair number of English songs. With respect to those who want to sleep, everything closes down around midnight. Given my proximity to the square I’d best join in. If I didn’t there would be no point in going to bed early. In any case these are delightful occasions, and at one we met Judith and Roger Munns, whose friendship was to prove to be particularly helpful.
On our early morning arrival in Sigoules on 28th August 2014 I immediately visited the police and alerted them to the fact that I was about to reclaim my house. I had been advised that they would help me regain my property. This was denied by the officer on the desk who stated that it was a civil matter and not their concern.
Allowing a reasonable amount of time to avoid waking whoever was in the household, accompanied by Michael, I rang the bell. Having no response, I opened the door, which was unlocked, and confronted some of the occupants. These included the mother of the family, a teenage girl, two young men, and two small children. The conman who had groomed me was away.
Despite pleading from the mother and the two pre-school children clutching at her skirts I was adamant that they should leave today. The father was suddenly able to telephone me and ask me to retract. Naturally I refused.
The woman claimed to have no money, no transport, and nowhere to go. I did not believe her and would not relent.
Leaving them to pack up, we visited Garry and Brigitte next door. I spent the morning with my neighbours while Michael went off to make some work phone calls. Brigitte cooked a splendid lunch which consisted of a piquant tomato salad; sausages with fried potatoes, onions, and haricot beans which Garry had topped and tailed; and strawberries. We drank rosé wine and water.
An emergency locksmith reinforced the security of the front door. Obtaining that locksmith was just one benefit from the friendship of Judith and Roger mentioned above. When others had been unable Judith quickly tracked down a man to change the locks.
My unwelcome guests did actually leave at the appointed time. In truth, Michael had found the language – only Garry spoke any English – too stressful and had resorted to a café meal. This meant that my son was able to witness the female squatter using a bank card to fill a car with petrol before moving off – the significance of this being that fuel there was only available by card.
I began the task of reclaiming my rooms by making my bed which contained cheesy snacks similar to Quavers lodged between the mattress and the headboard. The bedroom itself had been taken over. My clothes had been removed from wardrobes, and an array of shoes were lined up on the floor. An enormous television stood on my chest of drawers.
That evening, although I hadn’t slept for more than 24 hours, I was still not tired, so I settled down to watch Prime Suspect 3. I got the gist of it, but some of the detail escaped me because I kept dropping off into deep slumber. I went to bed at midnight and slept soundly for six hours.
All was not over yet, because much furniture, many clothes, bedding, and personal effects belonging to the squatters remained to be collected.
That’s so terrible, Derrick. Why would these people believe that they have the right to take over someone else’s home? I’m glad that you gave them the boot!
Thank you very much, John
Ditto
What a ‘French welcome’ to say the least! So many ‘dodgy’ people around. We are retired in Spain and a young British woman shocked me by renting out nearby villas and pocketing the money a while back. She was eventually arrested and charged…
Thank you very much, Joy. Most of the local people were very welcoming and friendly. The adults in this family were not French
What a time! Thank goodness for Michael and for your friends. Most people are decent, but the ones who aren’t decent are certainly memorable.
Thank you very much, Laurie
Thank goodness for friends in foreign lands 💛
Indeed. Thank you very much, Val
I’m glad it seems to be turning out as well as it has. One can hate grifters and con artists, in or out of office. 😉
Indeed, Pat. Thank you very much
An awful experience indeed!
Thanks very much, Anne
That must have been very stressful. Good for you for standing your ground.
Thank you very much, Liz
You’re welcome, Derrick.
What an experience! Reclaiming what is ours demands lots of determination and perseverance.
Thank you very much, Rosaliene
What a shocking experience. Sometimes I wonder how such things are allowed to happen. Here in Athens, grifters and conmen are the order of the day acting with impunity. Hopefully, all’s well that ends well.
Thank you so much, Sofia. All well in the past, now.
Well done, Derrick!
Thank you so much, John
Thank goodness you had help and you were able to get them to leave. I’ve heard of situations here where squatters can’t be forced out. Did you make notes of all this, or do you have an amazing memory (or both 🙂)?
The Friday night events do look fun.
Thank you very much, Merril. Much of the material was taken from earlier blog posts – however I remember enough detail to have fleshed it out this time. Fortunately I do still have a good memory for what I experience and what people say – less so for what I read 🙂
🙂🙂
I was wondering the same thing! How did he remember what was served, etc? Thank you for asking!
You’re welcome, Jodie! Though I have to admit, I often remember the food–not those other details though. 😏
You’re right, lol. I can see remembering the food. . .
I must have written notes at the time 🙂
What a terrible experience for you Derrick and one I bet you are glad is in the past. There are some awful people in the world.
Thank you so much, June
Wow, how people could do things like that are beyond me! I hope things go better from here on out.
Eventually, GP. Thanks a lot
What a beautiful large photo of the people eating !
Thank you very much fauquetmichel
This post had me on edge, and so angry for you! Thank goodness you ‘held your ground.’
Thank you very much, Pam
I’ve read stories from some of our cities about this sort of thing happening. Despite the difficulty of your situation, you truly were one of the lucky ones.
I was. To get them out so easily was a real surprise. Thank you very much, Linda.
What a beautiful place to eat a good meal, listen to music, and people watch! 🙂
Oh, gosh, what a horrible ordeal! 😮 🙁 So good you stood your ground. And I’m so glad for Michael, Judith and Roger Munns, and Garry and Brigitte…who all supported and helped you. ❤️
Now I’m pondering, wondering…what happened next. ???
(((HUGS))) ❤️
You will see, Carolyn. Thank you very much. X
I am surprised that you left when they packed, I would have stayed there to make sure nothing ended up missing.
You are so right – as you will see, Bridget. Thanks very much
It is interesting that they left so easily. But, still there is that massive “putting all to rights” yet to come.
That was very surprising. I think they were in trouble with police and social services already. Thanks very much, Gwen
How horrible! I am sorry you went through this.
Thank you so much, Cindy. The worst bit was the children’s distress
What an awful experience.
Thanks very much, Andy
You’re welcome.
You’ve had enough adventures/experiences in your life for 2 people! It makes my life seem very humdrum, indeed.
Thank you very much, Yvonne. I’ve never been to Italy
You have missed a grand culture. Or, it was, in those good old days.
What a colorful tale. I am glad you stood your ground, and reclaimed what was rightfully yours. Also, rave for having an amazing support system
That’s incredible! Luckily you’ve managed to get them out!
Can’t wait for the rest of your story. One of my squatter stories was when we sublet our apartment for a short vacation. The renter trashed the place then didn’t pay us. The check bounced. The women came to the door one day and asked for a ring back that I had found. I said, “You must be kidding. No, you can’t have it back.” The ring was thin, broken, and worthless.
What a shame the ring wasn’t valuable, Sherry. Thanks very much
What a horror story, Derrick! I am glad you had good friends, and your son with you, to help you through all this mess. Aside from all that, Sigoules looks so beautiful and festive.
Yes it is a lovely village and I enjoyed my time there. Thanks you so much, Lavinia
Quite an ordeal you had here Derrick!
Thanks very much, Aletta
Those summer Friday nights sound and look amazing, Derrick. What a wonderful way for neighbors to get to know one another! It’s so hard to have to fight for what is rightfully yours. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. xo
Thank you so much, Jodie. X
What a story – I haven’t read all these posts, so I’m not sure of the whole picture, but it’s incredible to me that squatters took over your living space. That’s terrible!
Thank you very much, Barbara
I imagine the whole episode was quite stressful. I’m glad you saw it through.
Thank you very much, Sue. It was very scary because it was another country and I hadn’t known what to expect.
I can imagine.
Have the squatters ever been prosecuted? Have you ever recovered damages?
No and no, Dolly. I just cut my losses. Thanks for asking, but it was all too much for me. There is a bit more to come.
What a shame, and not even because of your losses, but because people should not go unpunished for doing this.
Your French misadventure is potboiler stuff! However, I don’t mean to discount the uncalled for trauma you were subjected to. Fortunately, you could redeem your asset at the end of it all.
Thank you so much, Uma. Fully understood
Ok…I’m catching up.
Much appreciated, Alys
Such unpleasant events. Glad for you they were in the past.
Thank you so much, Byung