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We have recently subscribed to a joint funeral plan which offered a free will writing service. It is a distinct example of my ability to grasp ambivalence that I can prepare for the inevitable whilst at the same time feeling it is not going to happen to me.
By appointment today, the will writer telephoned and gleaned all the necessary information for her to draft up documents for both of us. As the Administration Department of our marriage I then prepared Jackie’s application for a renewal of her driving license. She signed it, of course. It hasn’t found its way to a post box yet.
This afternoon I watched the Wimbledon quarter final tennis match between Roger Federer and Kevin Anderson. I will not give away any details for those who may have recorded the game, save to say that there was a certain amount of consternation that it might continue long enough to clash with England’s World Cup football semi-final contest with Croatia.
Have no fear, we even had time for drinks in the Rose Garden, where, in addition to the many roses, we could enjoy other plants such as lilies and the Lanarth White lace cap hydrangea.
We watched the first half of the football on the sofa with bowls of Jackie’s superb pork paprika on our knees. This was served with new potatoes and chantenay carrots. I drank a Mendoza Malbec 2017 and the Culinary Queen drank Hoegaarden. Now we are going to see the second half.
Everything looks gorgeous Derrick
Many thanks, Drew
What a lovely day you had.
Thanks very much, Cindy
I think most of us have that ability to feel immortality is ours while chatting about which casket is preferred…….. I love that you can have drinks in the rose garden!
Many thanks, Pauline. It is not just me, then!
You are a very organised person Derrick and yes, lovely roses.
Thanks very much, Rupali
Beautiful rose collection. Hope your team win!
Thanks very much, Roland. I’ll say nothing about the result 🙂
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Having lost a loved one who had funeral and burial plans and having lost one who did not. I see the great value in preparing ahead for those we will leave.
Your roses are stunning! 🙂 “Days of Wine and Roses”. 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
Thanks very much, Carolyn X
You’re welcome, Derrick!
HUGS for you and Jackie! 🙂
Well, Derrick, the idea of “Death is for others” got a lot of people through WW2 so it’s worth a go!! It’s certainly my best plan so far.
🙂 Thanks a lot, John
You are very organized. How lovely that you have such a beautiful rose garden to sit in while having your pre-dinner drinks.
Many thanks, Merril. Jackie organises the practical stuff – at least I can manage the admin 🙂
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Hi dear Derrick, at last I make my way over here my friend, and am delighted to be greeted by such a wonderful garden filled with roses..
I watched the said Tennis Match.. what a great match it was too..
The football ended as i thought it would, but to be fair, this young team did well compared with other years..
I can show my age to say I do remember when we won the world cup and remember all those football collector cards in the school yard too, to swap..
I am afraid it will not be coming home this time..
Hope you are well..
Enjoy the rest of your week..
Sue 🙂
Many thanks, Sue. It was a marvellous tennis match, and the lads did do well. I, too, remember 1966. That year I played cricket against Geoff Hurst who was playing for Essex 2nd XI
WOW, wonderful Derrick, a great memorable year 🙂
Yowza! Those are gorgeous, Derrick!
Thanks very much, Jill
A lovely post: It’s wonderful to imagine you and Jackie having a cocktail in such a beautiful place.
Thanks very much, Jodie
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Lovely roses Derrick… bugger Rodger lost…
It was a marvellous contest, Ivor. Thanks very much
Oh well, can’t win them all…..
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Didn’t know what to say so I’ll just add this which you can delete if you like, 😈 :'( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PablFo3yaa4
Wonderful, Brian. Many thanks. This prompted Jackie to say: “You never promised me a rose garden, but you did make me one”. A most uplifting song
Ah! The evanescence of football matches, flowers, life and driving licenses constitute the Dark Matter of the universe.
🙂 Thanks very much, Uma
Drinks in the rose garden sound wonderful, Derrick and Jackie! Here’s to many more years of roses and fine wine for the two of you. 🙂
Cheers, Lavinia
Beautiful roses, Derrick. Sorry England lost to Croatia. Our writers’ critique group was meeting in our favorite Mexican restaurant while the game was being broadcast.
Thanks very much, Rosaliene. Don’t worry, I’m not that passionate about football, although this was an uplifting journey
Were you anguished by the soccer semi-final!?
No. I’m not that passionate about it, and our lads done good. Thanks for asking, Yvonne
Good morning!!!!
“It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.”
― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince
Thanks very much, Efi. A great book to quote from
I love the close up shot of the roses….beautiful!
thanks very much, Arlene
I look forward to your match report, Derrick… 🙁
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Beautiful roses! 😀
Commiserations on the football 😞
Thanks a lot, Rob. The football journey was good
Always good to take care of the inevitable Derrick. Makes things easier for our loved ones when our time comes.
Yep. Many thanks, Gary
Wonderful pictures… and beautiful flowers
Thanks very much, Luisa
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Beautiful flowers and the description of your meal made me hungry. 🙂
Many thanks, Timeless
A perfect day. 🙂
Thanks very much, Widders
The roses look lovely. I’m now imagining the scent.
I now feel the need to quote Dowson, as he relates to both roses and funeral plans.
They are not long, the weeping and the laughter,
Love and desire and hate:
I think they have no portion in us after
We pass the gate.
They are not long, the days of wine and roses:
Out of a misty dream
Our path emerges for a while, then closes
Within a dream.
Brilliant quotation, Quercus. The scent, now combined with that of the lilies in the urns, is amazing. Practically all the roses were chosen for their scent. Thanks very much
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Great combination Derrick, Wimbledon, culinary feast and the relaxing ambiance of the Rose garden, what more can a man want.
Cheers.
Many thanks, Ian
Like always Derrick dear beautiful ❤️
Thanks very much, Laleh
My pleasure ❤️